Casual Dating for Women in Australia, on Your Terms

Choosing, not being chosen

Casual dating works best for you when you are the one deciding who gets a reply, not the one fielding whatever arrives. You can filter who is able to reach you, browse on your own terms, and take exactly as long as you want to decide whether to respond to anyone at all.

Ending a conversation cleanly

You do not owe anyone an explanation for ending a chat. Blocking someone should be one action, not a negotiation, and it works that way here. If a conversation has stopped being what you want, you can end it without justifying the decision to the other person or to us.

Reporting is read by a person

If someone pushes past a boundary, pressures you after you have said no, or asks for something you have not agreed to, report them. Reports are read, not filed away. That matters more on a casual dating site than almost anywhere else, because the whole premise depends on people respecting a no the first time.

Photos and what you control

What you share and with whom is your decision, and it should stay that way through the whole time you are a member, not just at sign-up. If discretion around your identity matters to you specifically, our discreet dating page goes into what privacy controls do and, honestly, what they cannot do.

What this means for the men here too

A casual dating site with very few women is not a functioning casual dating site, whatever the registration numbers say. Building a site that women and couples actually want to use is not a courtesy extended to one group. It is what makes the whole thing work for everyone on it, including the men who are the majority of our members today.

What it costs

Joining, browsing and search are free. Messaging needs a paid membership, on the terms on our pricing page. You choose whether and when to take that step, on your own schedule.